heartbreak

[thebigmin]

Yes you can stay I was jk, the more the merrier!

[Pete > You]

A good way to help hide it is to go to the gym and start lifting weights

[Erkel Takes The Bear]

I have no girlfriend and no friends

[iKichigai]

It's all a matter of perspective.

What did I say...

As for that girl, I miss her a whole lot though. I still read her blog from time to time. I never really stopped thinking about her. Maybe because I think it deserves a second chance, I don't know.

Okay, fuck this I want her back.

HOLY CRAP.

[buckytoole]

I've had too many and I'll never get over any of them

this.

every advice is good. but nothing really helps.
you just feel the pain. and that's all.

just gotta get stronger and deal with it day by day.

still...

FUCK

[xmoonxhowlerx]

What I learned is that you should enter every relationship with a "this has a 50% chance to devastate my life in the end" thought. You can NEVER be absolutely sure that the other person is committed to the relationship as much as you are and you can never be sure that this is the one. Go along the lines of "hey, I try, I do my best for you and me, so that we can work out, I'll do a bunch of crazy shit just to keep you here, but if you can't appreciate that and return the favor in the same amount, then FUCK OFF BIATCH." If you put 100% of yourself into the relationship and that other person fucks you up, who gives a shit, the bitch doesn't deserve you anyway. Prob is that the only way for someone to learn this is the hard way. No pain no gain.

[iKichigai]

I was such a late bloomer that it was only 15 when I realized that it was possible to be attracted to guys.
(My libidinal energy is from low to non-existent=android)

My first boyfriday was when I was 16-17. Innocent cutesy relashunship. It lasted for about a year. I was young and I couldn't exactly tell then why I was in a relationship with him, he's one of my skate buddies in high school. All's cool until he started acting like a jerk and distracted me from my priorities in college. I didn't like that. Pretty lame. I had to break it up. We're still friends though, good friends.

I think I had a "omg it kinda hurts" phase at some point for about a week or two then I just diverted my attention towards positive things like doing good in school etc. and much much later, being in a band. I did a lot of stuff that kept me from thinking about being in a relationship again.

Now I'm 21, already out of college , and I still couldn't find any reason to be in a relationship.
I guess you don't have to? But then again men of quality are few and far between.


I should sign up for monkhood.

[buckytoole]

What I learned is that you should enter every relationship with a "this has a 50% chance to devastate my life in the end" thought.

you learn this after your first hardcore "love"... then it ends and you're like "fuck, i thought this was supposed to be 'forever'?"...
that whole feeling sticks with you and as much as you try to remain casual-ish with people knowing that one day things will probably end, it still doesn't mean the loss of that good part of your life isn't worth feeling bad about...
you can prepare yourself to know things will be bad and end... but when it happens you're never really ready

[BROOTALPOODLE]

getting married is for dumb asses. 50% divorce rate in america, cool

[alexander]

Yes you can stay I was jk, the more the merrier!

haha I'm just messing with you Alex xoxo